A college experience for one person is not the same as the college experience of another. What is fun and lively for one student can be hectic and stressful for another. For a while, I thought that attending college was a special brand of limbo created just for kids my age. College was a test; a test of wits, a test of endurance, a test of sacrifice. As a full time student-often times more than full time- and a part time server, college was a struggle; a struggle to get up in the morning, to trudge through the daily grind and make it to class on time.
At the end of the fall semester of my sophomore year, I switched my major from chemical engineering to magazine journalism. I was 80 percent finished with my general requirement courses, and was on my way to begin the core courses within the journalism major. I was looking at the beginning of my future, wondering how I was going to make it to what lay after graduation, and if I would even want it once I found it.
Junior year rolled around, bringing with it more challenging courses and leaving me without a real connection into the journalism world-or so I thought. Then, two things happened at once: I started scrapbooking with my mom and my mom’s friend Sheryl Vitelli was laid off from her job. Now, how do these two seemingly insignificant things relate to my career as a journalist? It’s simple, although I didn’t see it at first either: Sheryl ended up getting a job at FOCUS Magazine as a sales consultant and I was able to network with her at my mom’s scrapbooking parties.
I remember mentioning to Sheryl that I was going to school to be a writer. She had just started her job at FOCUS and said that she would look into any internships that they offered. Little did I know that this remark of mine would stay lodged into her brain, only to free itself one day many months down the road when her manager would ask if she knows any writers.
So one day I get a call. A call that would forever change my outlook on college, on life, on the benefits of networking with anyone and everyone you meet. Susan Riff, a manager at FOCUS Magazine calls me, says Sheryl mentioned that I was a writer, and that FOCUS wants me-me!- to write for them. I was completely blown away. I was excited and nervous, I felt like there were butterflies swimming around inside my body, just waiting to burst out with excitement.
At this moment, I knew that the only reason that I had been offered this job was because I had networked with Sheryl-however blindly it may have been- and was given a chance to prove my want to be a writer. Networking had helped me start writing for an established news outlet and would help me enhance my experience as a writer.
Once I began writing, I realized that people want to talk to you, especially once they find out you’re a writer. My experience as a writer so far is that a journalist gets to venture out into the community and ask questions about what’s going on around them. I get to be a facilitator of free PR, offering coverage of people and events that I find interesting in my daily trolling around my community.
USF Professor Randy Miller told my class that to write a story, you have to unleash your inner seven year old; you need to get curious about the world around you. Being a writer pushes you, it’s challenging. I often find myself banging my head up against the wall, chewing off pen caps- but, I love it. I have never found more enjoyment in my work-if you can even call doing something you love work- than when I’m out covering a story, or when I’m back at home writing about it.
So, who am I? I’m a student, a server, and a writer. But more than that, I’m a person. A person who knows that you will never meet two people who are the same, that everyone has a story to tell, and that each story you hear is a chance to connect with that person and create lasting relationships that you can build a foundation for your life off of. Networking isn’t just about getting contacts in the business world, it’s about building a relationship out of those contacts and connecting with people within your community.
Brittany Cerny
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